Win for yourself not others

If you constantly have to ask others what you should do with your life Or you goals...

You are not going to get anywhere.

If you care more what a person thinks you should do with your life or your path or your goals..

You are constantly living in failure and fear.

You have to focus on what makes you happy and what makes you grow.

Everyone around you is failing in some aspect, myself included.

So why would you listen to their opinion of what you should do instead of what you think you should do?

I wrote on this awhile ago but I wanted to come back to this especially at this time of the year.

We are approaching a time when usually we are spending more time with family than we typically do...

And what does that bring? People’s opinion of you.. people questioning you with what you are doing... people wanting to tell you how you should live your life...

Screw that haha.

No one’s opinion of what you should be doing in any aspect is worth listening to if you want to be happy.

Yes ... I understand that I just gave my opinion on how you should listen to an opinion... great thing is.. you can not listen to that .. but yet you’ll listen to a family member you might see once a year?

You care more about an opinion of someone who knows very little about you and what you want and where you want to go... more than the opinion you are giving yourself of where you want to go.

I have no idea why you would listen to an opinion from someone... that you would never ask advice from.

Especially if you are a person who asks for an opinion... then does the complete opposite of that opinion...

You are just giving yourself a way out of doing what you wanted to do by saying.. well at least I asked for help...

No you didn’t... you asked to make yourself feel better in a mindset that you weren’t being selfish.

Win for you.. win constantly... care about your opinion... not others

I hope you enjoyed this!

#DONTLETANYONE